Educate Moi

Aug 30

anbutaiso:

killin em farrakhan

(Source: cagedlions)

thecompanionsdoctor:

The thing that sucks about mental illness is that if you aren’t depressed enough, suicidal enough, bad enough, nobody cares. Nobody cares until you reach their standard, and that standard is when your problem is bad enough to effect them

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Aug 30

Anonymous said: Hi I am a black girl 16 yrs old.I feel obligated to date black men seeing all the stuff in the media about the downfall of black love I just feel like it's my job to stick around an never date other races of men but the only thing is the only guys that approach me are white not trying to put limits on love but I feel since some black men don't like black girls I should stick it out and wait for some one who does although I am attracted to white men and they show me more love than black guys

thebestofbothworldz:

iheart-whiteboys:

omni-p-o-t-e-n-t:

loadthevogue:

datlyfetho:

lovelyandbrown:

divawithattitude:

lovelyandbrown:

NO. MA’AM. NO!!!!!

it is not your JOB to date black men! you are not getting a CHECK! if the ones who are around you are dogging you out and you are getting affection from white men, FUCK THAT. FUCK ALL OF THAT.

i hate that it has to be this way. that SO MANY BLACK GIRLS GROW UP FEELING OBLIGATED TO PROTECT BLACK MEN AND PERPETUATE BLACK FAMILIES BUT THE RESPONSiBILITY DOESNT GO BOTH WAYS.

little sis, if you think these white boys are cute, go for what you know. maybe one day you’ll meet a brotha who shows you love and then you can date him and be happy and do #blacklove hashtags and all that.

but WHATEVER you do, if that day NEVER comes, DO NOT FEEL COMPELLED TO SIT AT HOME AND WAIT FOR A BLACK MAN. BECAUSE SO MANY OF THEM AIN’T WAITING FOR US.

and THAT’S THE TRUTH.

Remember
You can love and protect black men, while also dating people of other races.

THANK. YOU!

I needed to see this, I thought I was alone on the matter

👏👏👏👏 that last bolder section was fire!!!!

I asked someone that same question last night just because I feel so obligated. The last section ain’t nothing but the truth

Let the Church say Amen.

xoxo A&S

It’s sad that so many black girls grow up feeling this way.

Aug 30

boys-and-suicide:

Just remember in about 40 seconds someone is about to commit suicide as we sit here blogging. This post goes out to the teens who took and will take their lives. Please just reblog this post to recognize them and don’t question whether or not you should. I promise it won’t ruin your blog type.

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Aug 30
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Aug 30

(Source: noodleg0d, via quotes4us)

Anonymous said: need some advice or an opinion. there are girls that are interested in me but im currently unemployed. i dont have much to my name. im struggling with life & times are hard for me. im scared that girls are going to reject me cause im poor man. should i wait til i get a job & some money before i try to date one of these girls man?

bvsedjesus:

Nah homie. I don’t know what it is about these women man. If you love somebody, you love them for who they are. They should love you unconditionally. Not for what you have or what materialistic things you can provide for them. Or to take care of their responsibilities. It’s their responsibility to provide for themselves my nigga, not yours. They need to make their own money, pay their own bills & buy their own shit. A man shouldn’t be required to do all of that to be seen as a good potential life partner. Nah. Money has nothing to do with love. A lot of these females today are lazy & want to be dependent off another niggas wealth. Saying they dont want a scrub or that they dont fuck with broke niggas. Most times it’s broke women who say that bullshit. Then there are women who are financially stable & reject niggas that make less than them. It’s pathetic. My mom makes like 10x more than my pops but my pops is a good man & she’d rather have that over the wealthiest man on this planet.

Fuck that gender role bullshit. If shorty really fucks with you, she’s gonna tell you not to worry about that. She’s gonna offer to pay for shit. She’s gonna be your ride or die. She’s gonna help to make you a better person. She’s gonna help you get money & be successful. Plain & simple. You hear in marriage vows "for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health". If she ain’t bout that, she don’t love you b & she’s selfish. Straight up. 

So don’t trip if shorty don’t wanna start nothin with you cause you dont have ends. Fuck those females man. Fuck everybody like that. Men & women. People these days got this whole love & relationship thing fucked up. 

It’s a long ass answer I know but it’s something I think about a lot. I really can’t stand it. It’s shallow & pathetic. Hope it helps homie. Stay up.

Aug 30
turkeyinacan:

They make it so easy sometimes.
Aug 30

turkeyinacan:

They make it so easy sometimes.

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Aug 30

itreallyisthelittlethings:

thetimesinbetween:

weareallmedie:

lierdumoa:

iwatchforsasha:

Fantastic Breasts and Where to Find Them

That second to last panel is chilling.

#and because women have created a community where they don’t need to buy anything to get what they want

I think about this ALL THE TIME. I fucking love it. 

Fandom is the most brilliant, beautiful, collaborative, critical, deeply subversive stuff there is and I ADORE IT TO PIECES.

And no, it’s not all women—certainly not, absolutely not. But I’d say it’s vast majority women. (…Ridiculous crazy vast majority anybody-except-cis-men.) I know I often think of fandom as a feminine and/or queer-centered space.

I’m reblogging for the added commentary and to add a link to a meta I recently came across. The whole thing is worth a read, but the first paragraph really resonates:

The types of fandom that are most often considered traditional and acceptable, and which are often either male-dominated or coded as masculine, tend to be acquisitive, whether in terms of knowledge (obscure trivia) or merchandise (collectibles). Whereas, by contrast, the types of fandom most often considered insincere, non-serious or “unreal”, and which are often either female-dominated or coded as feminine, tend to be creative, such as making costumes, writing fanfic and drawing fanart. (via fozmeadows)

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Anonymous said: I feel shitty that I'm still in love with my ex, I hope that we get back together but I know it's not gunna happen. I feel real stupid.

vogue-pussyxo:

Don’t feel stupid it’s okay. We’re all humans we all been through that situation anyways. I know this sounds lame but there’s someone better entering your life soon. You were worth it he just doesn’t deserve you.

Aug 30
ohaiijodii:

There’s something so beautiful about old, ruined, disgusting, abandoned houses to me.
Aug 30

ohaiijodii:

There’s something so beautiful about old, ruined, disgusting, abandoned houses to me.

(via d-eauxis)

hirxeth:

As long as the music is loud enough we won’t hear the world falling apart
Aug 30

hirxeth:

As long as the music is loud enough we won’t hear the world falling apart

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ethiopienne:

on today’s episode of me having feelings, a series of tweets about “anti-rape nail polish.”
Aug 30

ethiopienne:

on today’s episode of me having feelings, a series of tweets about “anti-rape nail polish.”

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tree-stump-palace:

whentherestrouble:

smoochums:

women grow hair on their boobs and their butts and their legs and their arms and their stomachs and their face and really anywhere their genetics decides to have hair and it is perfectly normal what isnt normal is men who have never touched a razor trying to shame women for not looking like a hairless baby

important

shout this loud.

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Aug 27

Anonymous said: I feel shitty that I'm still in love with my ex, I hope that we get back together but I know it's not gunna happen. I feel real stupid.

vogue-pussyxo:

Don’t feel stupid it’s okay. We’re all humans we all been through that situation anyways. I know this sounds lame but there’s someone better entering your life soon. You were worth it he just doesn’t deserve you.

Aug 27